You want your body language to be open and inviting, with your shoulders back (but not far back; you’re enjoying yourself, not standing at attention), and arms open.
Not only is this a more friendly and accommodating pose, but it makes you look more confident as well.
After all, you never know when you might run into someone amazing that you might want to get to know.
Want to let women know it’s OK to come talk to you?Even if you’re just people-watching on your own, doing so with a smile and open body language will indicate that you’re actually having fun and that will make you seem more enticing to the people around you.Keep in mind: you can’t just sit around and expect women to do all the heavy lifting for you.Some guys have success with making a “come here” gesture with their hands and waving her over; it’s a bold move and one that’s easy to mess up by seeming too demanding, but it work. You’d Now you’re too intimidated to try to go over and introduce yourself while she’s around all those people, so you decide that you’ll just wait until there’s a chance to catch her alone. only “later” never comes because by the time you’ve decided to give it another shot, she’s disappeared. As intimidated as Approaching someone you don’t know who’s in a group isn’t any less daunting when you’re a woman. Fun is, hands down, the most attractive aspect of a man and someone who is having fun is going to be more interesting and more appealing to others.Just don’t bro out and make a stupid joke like “I just wanted to see if I could make you come from a distance. If you’re with your guy friends, she’s going to feel like she’s not just having to talk to you but deal with all of silent (or not so silent) judgement. And because we’re empathetic animals, our moods are contagious.