If you’re ever unsure about what the “right” amount of eye contact is, then observe how much eye contact the other person is giving you and match that.)There are some situations where it’s okay to make a lot more eye contact than normal.
Even if they just want to hook up with me, it's obviously not going to happen if they act like I'm invisible when we're face to face. I'm not lovestriken, but am more so genuinely perplexed. The other person will feel like you’re not paying attention or you’ll seem really insecure. Too much salt and nobody will want to eat the fries either. If you give too much eye contact, people will think it’s creepy and won’t want to be around you after their first taste.That’s why it’s important to look people in the eyes the right amount of time, not too little and not too much.Back when I was extremely shy and bad at making eye contact, I really wished someone would just tell me EXACTLY how long to look someone in the eyes.So here are some quick and fast rules: (Side note: I’ve noticed that girls talking to their girl friends usually make a lot more eye contact than guys talking to their guy friends.