I'm finding it difficult to have a discussion with him about what turns my crank per se.Our sex life is good, we both walk away satisfied, but I just know it would be so much better (for me) if he went outside his normal personality a bit.
I have not dated since the divorce almost six years ago.
I want you to drag me by the hair (don't pull really hard, just kind of tug) and take me against the bathroom wall when we're getting ready to go out because you find me so sexy you can't wait." The reason the trilogy was such a sensation is because lots of women, even alpha women like yourself, want to feel taken in bed.
But when you are an alpha woman and you have an egalitarian relationship, it's hard to say, "Please be a beast!
I cannot imagine a life without him and part of me feels that I need to let him go. A: Presumably, six years ago your husband's co-worker could have written me exactly the same letter, except her confessional would have included the fact that she and her married co-worker also had a beautiful physical union.
You haven't even dated since the breakup, so I assume the dissolution of your marriage was traumatic for you.