Dating what men want

A woman who loves herself, regardless of her own flaws, will love a man for all of his.

Beyond loving you, she will knock down the doors of resistance and reach for the stars you.

In case it’s not obvious: Demonstrate creativity, intelligence and a great sense of humour • Be totally different to anything she may have received before • Be obviously unique and not a cut-and-paste job • Show that I’ve read her profile and absorbed facts about her • Not be needy!

I have dedicated an entire volume of my bestselling audio series, Finding the One Online to how to write emails just like this.

Especially when it comes to men trying to write to women.

The woman we decide to share our world with is the one who will mother our children, help us plan life, pick us up when we're down and make us better men than we are right now. If there ever comes a point when you feel a need to do that, well, you're just with the wrong man.

Whereas before a man just needed to be the best looking guy at work to get a date with a colleague, now he needed to be in the top 10% of all men to get a date with one of the women in his city.” This is the double-edged sword of online dating.

You have far more access to singles than ever before. Which means that there’s also far more COMPETITION.

It's not a knock, but seriously, how would that be possible?

We prefer the woman who's sitting home, reading a book as opposed to getting drunk with her friends on the weekends; we prefer the one who's life is kept more low-key, as it makes her more intriguing. It goes without saying that a woman who is very free with her offerings of affection will entice us. Just like you, we want a woman to reach out and grab our hand; we want for you to come over and kiss us randomly; we want for you to hug us and ask us how our day was. It just strengthens that connection we have with you and opens up lines of communication, but more importantly, makes us feel comfortable — invited in, so to speak. Intelligent women are ones who know so much about the world around them, but even more so, have a keen interest in making it a better place. Furthermore, they have this drive to be successful, which in itself, can be the biggest turn on there is.