How long are you willing to wait before you cut bait and move on? John Piper is founder and teacher of desiring and chancellor of Bethlehem College & Seminary.For better or worse, men will not make commitments that aren't required of them. If he really wants you, he will try to get you back; but if he doesn't, remember: during your most eligible years, you are better off being back on the market than tied up in a dead-end relationship.If he isn't taking things to the next level when you think it is appropriate, break up with him.
He acknowledges that there are risks for those who seek to make a lasting difference by faith, yet he believes that they are risks worth taking for the cause of the gospel.
This means that your mid- to late-twenties are the years in which you are most likely to attract the highest quality man you can get.
And while I've written a fair amount about maximizing your attractiveness, it all counts for nothing if you aren't single when the right guy comes along, or if you aren't putting yourself out there because you are involved with someone who is only half-committed to you.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
If you are interested in getting married, you need to be well aware of the fact that you are probably most attractive sometime in your mid- to late-twenties.