"I’m someone who giggles, especially on calls because I do get nervous, and a lot of my clients like it! Ever wanted to have sex upside-down in zero gravity on the International Space Station? In fantasy, you get to be a superhero, villain, rockstar, or a groupie.
Before being a phone sex operator, I never paid attention to my giggle, because it's not something you think about. Description is everything in phone sex, so if you're creating a fantasy scenario, set the scene.
When you talk, breathe heavy, or moan, you’re doing this through a direct line to the brain.”But if you need some help perfecting your dirty-talk repertoire and etiquette, don’t worry: We talked to a handful of phone-sex operators and got their best advice for upping your phone-sex game.
Since you’re on the phone, you can’t really tell the difference between making something up and reading, and it gets you used to saying dirty things without actually having to come up with them yourself. They can hear your voice describing every movement and deciding what you touch… Build up the pressure as long as possible, and don’t be afraid to ease off for a few minutes before going back at it again.Talk about your cunt-snatch-cooze-hole and his dick-prick-stick.”— Kathleen K.Wear something sexy.“Go through your drawers and find something that makes you feel sexy.Avoid using words like the ‘c’ word if those words will make your phone sex lover uncomfortable.”-Elaine Shuel Make sure your language is action-oriented.“Shove that, shake those, grab and hold and twist, push it in, push it in — way in. As your call is describing what you are doing to each other, picture it in your mind. As their tongue caresses your pussy's lips, squirm from the touch as you would if they were actually doing it to you.”— Elaine Shuel Use toys on yourself.“Sex toys can be arousing during a call — I‘ve often used my magic wand or egg during calls.That purr in your voice will be even breathier and insistent when you ask if [they] want you to spread wider, or clamp down like a vise.”-Kathleen K. The sounds of the vibrations will heighten your enjoyment.