“Cybersex is also easier to hide and it usually doesn’t cost money.” With the internet’s coming of age, so have multiple opportunities to meet someone online and get romantically involved. Tessina, 64, a Long Beach, California-based psychotherapist and author of Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting about the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage (Adams Media 2008).While the fantasy aspect is alluring, it can also lead to misrepresentation even without intent,” said Leslie Beth Wish, 60, a psychologist and social worker based in Sarasota, Florida, who has been counseling couples in relationships for over 30 years.“The introduction of the Internet,” she adds, “has changed the face of what had been the traditional affair.If you are aware of a user who is not 18 or older you need to alert the moderator(s).Asking another person to pretend that they are less than 18 years old is not allowed. It’s Cybersex, and it has become the easiest way to cheat on your spouse. In fact, the Internet hookup has become so commonplace, it’s now considered as viable as any other venue to meet someone.
You may have seen a message displayed in the sex chat room about profanity.Do not post commercial urls, or urls to other chat systems or porn sites.Cam invites and requests are not allowed in the main rooms.And it’s really a fantasy to have an affair on a machine.It is not real.” “That aspect fantasy might be why so many married people get lured into affairs online when that was not their original intent.