Therefore, the people in Pakistan may not know of the wife who is in the US or the UK. Thus, she becomes what is known as a “Secret Wife.” One day her husband may say he has to go back to Pakistan for a visit. In the first place, why do these Pakistani men do this to foreign women?
Mainly, they do it to get citizenship/naturalization/immigration status in the US or the UK.
We all know nothing is absolute except our Creator.
I simply urge all women that if they marry a Pakistani man beware!
They probably had an “arranged marriage.” When the man has more than one wife, it makes him polygamous. Furthermore, he gives the foreign wife excuses as to why he could not defy his mother. Suddenly, the foreign wife becomes distraught when she learns of her husband’s other marriage.
Often these Pakistani men never take the foreign wives to Pakistan to meet their families, relatives, or friends. Although the reason is cultural, he may say it’s Islam. It doesn’t matter if it was an arranged marriage or otherwise. She’s has made a life with this man and is already emotionally invested. It’s extremely difficult and painful for her, as she struggles to figure out what to do.
But, no, we do not all have a secret handshake and, no, we’re not going to find out we’re cousins.
Many of the Pakistani men marry foreign women without letting them know that they already have wives and children back in Pakistan.
More often than not, the Pakistani man will or may have already married his first cousin who is still in Pakistan.
This little gem came from a creative director when I was writing commercials at a massive global advertising agency.
Remember, being brown in the workplace is only useful to the extent your employer can monetize it. By the way, I usually just suggest the first restaurant that comes up on Google.