Do not let yourself get confused because someone said “Hey gorgeous, I’d love to see you sometime soon” but the person doesn’t actually ever make plans to see you. If someone is playing you, it can create a false sense of intimacy.Eventually, the true colors will show and it will be around that time when you start complaining about mixed signals.It always is wise to take some time away from dating if there is a negative pattern developing.
Again, consider the actions if you need proof, one way or another. When this happens, it will feel effortless, natural and easy.
This propels their wishy-washy agenda (that’s always in “self-serving” mode). It’s a direct signal of emotional unavailability, potential narcissism & a need to control. It’s a direct signal that he will be the same with the next girl and its a DIRECT signal of f*cktardery. It hurts to stop loving him, and to know that my intution was right. I reconnected with someone from work who is very newly divorced.
Bottom line – Mixed signals are utilized to propel the agenda of: buying time to reap benefits that should be EARNED, not given because future faking words were in consistent contradiction with hurtful actions. You are destined for so much more than the role of “gullible detective #1,” in the story of YOUR life. Last night he said, “I’m messaging you as soon as I get off work to explain all that’s been going on here. But I trust you, and I’m staying on the white horse and not reacting. Can you write a post on this: What happens when he starts dating the girl he told you not to worry about. S: The girl he told me not to worry about was my friend for 5 years, before she became his “bestfriend” about 9 months back. The night we connected, he explained he did not know who he was or what we wanted.
If someone is all about you in private, but is reluctant to introduce you to his or her friends or family or take you out in public, there could be trouble in paradise.
If someone can’t show any affection whatsoever unless you’re alone, that’s not mixed signals, that’s just a red flag.