You are your own person and the only benchmark relationship should be your own. You can’t remember what attracted you to him in the first place.
When you first met, he was sweet, considerate, romantic and loving. There is something very wrong if you are feeling lonely in a relationship. She is suggesting threesomes and open relationships.
We need someone to be our mirror, where we see the best sides of ourselves when we are in mutual relations.
We are looking for love whole life; we are in search each day of our life from birth till death. The final aim is to give our love to someone and make another person happy; accept someone without conditions and let somebody accept you. We need to be loved and feel it every moment of our life.
The more we were loved and accepted in childhood, the more love we can give and receive from others. This is how love develops, from taking to giving and finally to accepting. Being small kids we usually take more than give as we are less strong, less independent and need someone to satisfy our vital needs. Our parents give us love we need sometimes unconditionally, sometimes with conditions; sometimes they don’t love us or just missed in this chain.
All we are interested in how to become a successful person in the professional, social and of course in the private sphere.
The world of online dating (online dating sites, matchmaking, coaches, dating agencies, etc.) indirectly helps us in our search of couple, but the main contribution into our relationship, we must and can do just by ourselves. Didn’t you think, why are you still single in the presence of such a huge number of specialized on the online dating resources, information about marriage agencies, matchmakers, dating clubs?