Do you want to date casually during the time that he’s dating casually or did you say that to establish a fair playing field without intending to act on it?
I would say get clear on those questions before making a decision.
There could be countless reasons why he feels this way, but frankly it’s not worth your time and energy trying to psychoanalyze him.
It sounds like you like him a lot on many levels and over time you’ll start to learn more about where he’s at.
Both of us have never been married and have no kids. We live about 50 miles away but decided that is no issue. He is always telling me how much he likes me, I’m a sweetheart, how much fun he has with me, he feels so comfortable with me and how our sexual chemistry is just awesome.
He said he wants to take it slow and really get to know me and- much to my dismay- he has gone on dates with other women.
One month in, I asked him what he thought about being exclusive.
(We had sex on the first date, BTW, don’t know if that would make a huge difference.) We spend every weekend together and usually one night during the week and he calls or texts me everyday just to say hi.
My friend would have married her if their time wasn’t cut short by misfortune.Your weaknesses can tell you a lot about why you have chosen certain people in your life.5.Allow yourself to be attracted to a man without having to do anything about it. Get to know him and see if he is a potential match before you are moving toward the bedroom! If you want to give yourself a chance to find, attract, and keep the right man for you, take your time and really understand who you are and what you must have to create a happy, successful relationship.In fact, one couple comes to mind that had similar stats as you described, though they did not live far apart – probably only a 10 mile drive from one another.They were honest with each other about where their heads were and what they were looking for.